Temari Southern Style
Third Annual Retreat, Atlanta, Georgia
November 7-9, 2003

(yes there are photos too)

         It seems over the last two to three years we have established a few tradtitions through TalkTemari - a southern stitching retreat in the fall and a northern Stitchin in the spring. 2003 was no exception with Sue C of Atlanta stepping up to the plate to organize the gathering (the first weekend in November). Sue arranged with The Fairfield Inn/Marriot in the Dunwoody/Perimeter Mall section of northern Atlanta so that with the rental of rooms their Breakfast Room could be used by the group during the day after 10am so there was a perfect gathering area (not to mention a little carousing in the rooms too!!). Blair and a new-to-temari-buddy Carolyn from Alabama, Sue H from Michigan, Peg L and Eric C from Kentucky, Barb from North Carolina, and Nicole from Tennessee descended upon Sue and Georgia. Herewith are collected thoughts and photos of the time....looks like another riproaring success.

From Blair we have the rundown -

        We are an amazing group. To think that a craft such as ours pulls so many of us from different walks of life together to share, learn, become friends, and for some - closer friends. And so it was again recently when we gathered in Atlanta. Alabama, Michigan, Kentucky, North Carolina, Georgia, and Tennessee were represented - a total of 8 (not counting the gecko that caught a ride up from lower Alabama in Blair's sewing basket). Some of us had met before while others were experiencing their first time to actually put faces with names. Gosh, the Internet can be a wonderful thing! Susan C., the organizer of it all, had arranged rooms for us at a comfortable hotel, the center of it all. Friday night found most of us gathered in Sue H. and Susan C.'s room dumping balls everywhere we could, perusing books (Barb brought a library), and just talking (when we weren't feasting on Kentucky Bourbon fudge - good stuff! and other snack goodies). Later in the evening, some went to dinner and some went to bed. Not being part of the dinner group, I can only share what I heard. Those gallant adventurers found a Chinese (or Japanese?) restaurant ready to close (chairs were up and everything) and got the proprieters to cook them up a meal that they were able to bring back to the hotel.

        Saturday morning, Barb became our chauffeur and Sue H. our navigator while everyone else nestled in the back two rows. Everyone had their tassels on thanks to Nicole (ok, quit thinking that! They were nametags made out of beads, thread, and finished off with a lovely tassel). (Webmaster's note - Tassels have a long and interesting history with this crew). Our first stop was to be the local thread store. The owner got delayed in getting there early for us (but we did get a group picture on the front steps) so off we were again to The Container Store. Wonderful, wonderful place! We all spent time in the check out line with items that we never knew we needed until coming in that store. For me, my personal favorite thing I bought was the air tight dog food container that I am now using for my rice hulls. You should have seen us figuring out how to pack Barb's van with the items the 7 of us bought. Close quarters for sure. Next stop was back to the thread store where the invasion began. This store had specialty threads, Anchor, Perle Cotton, metallics, even a grab bag of threads that definitely paid off for the ones who picked that up. The owner casually mentioned she had more metallics in the back if we were interested but they were discontinued lines and 15 cents a spool. Nicole goes, "Uh, yeah!!"  It was like a pinata burst. The bag was dumped onto a table and we all converged. When we finally made our way out of the store, I sensed sighs of satisfaction as our thread habits had been sated for the moment. (webmaster's note - as any temari stitcher knows you can never have enough threads, and ye who dies with the most threads wins).

         Back to the hotel we went. We overtook the breakfast room as we brought all of our stuff down on a hotel luggage rack. Lunch was brought in by Sue C., her sister, and her mother. (webmaster's note - unfortunately Sue C was hit with some moderately severe health problems as the weekend approached and did a heroic job of continuing to organize and pull this thing off - she was able to be there on and off during the weekend to enjoy some of the festivities but not as orignally planned and hoped. Thanks to her planning and the returning players everything went off without a hitch. And yes, Sue is doing much better thank you!).  They were so fun to watch as they absorbed the Temari magic. That afternoon, Barb taught us the easy way to do a swirl with a 4 division. Sue H. mentored many of us as she cracked codes and cheered us through new patterns from the Japanese books. Eric and Nicole played with threads. Peg, Carolyn, and I  just sewed to our hearts content. It truly was a wonderful day.

        Dinner that night was at a place called Sweet Tomatoes, a cafeteria style restaurant that offered a bit of everything. Good eatings! When we got back to the hotel, Barb had brough a 50 pound bag of rice hulls and allowed us all to purchase whatever amount we wanted from her. With what I had at home, I purchased enough to fill my new "air tight dogfood container now rice hull container" to the brim. We later converged again in Sue H. and Susan C.'s room to share our work and our resources. We even had a chance to enjoy donated vendor door prizes (Thanks to Kiyoko and her manager at Sophia Books in Vancouver BC Canada, our favorite source for Japanese Temari books - Eric is a very happy camper to be able to expand his library;  and also to Tracy at SewThankful) distributed after playing some Temari trivia games.The day seemed complete. The next morning, we met early enough to have breakfast and to see Sue H. off to get her train to the airport. The conversation flowed easily as we shared more about Temari and our own lives. Slowly, each one of us made our way out the front door as we began our travels home. The 3rd annual Southern Temari Gathering was a success. We all are looking forward to meeting again next year. Details to come later. My one regret was that Sue C. could not be with us very much. I know she worked hard to get us together yet became ill and did not have the stamina to be there 24/7. Sue C. will always hold a special place for me as she was my first Temari-ite I met straight off the Internet. She is a gracious, super person. I am glad she is on the road to recovery. Thank you Sue C. for everything. To the rest of you that got to be a part of this, I enjoyed seeing you all again and meeting some of you for the first time. You are all an inspiration to me.  - Blair H, Fairhope Alabama

From Sue H - Now that we have had several gatherings, north and south on the east coast, a number of us have gotten to "really" know each other. Nicole is noted for her orange toe-nail polish and her love of tassels. Nicole is also a master at thread organization and collection. I fear, by the next gathering, she will need a trailer to haul her stash. As was stated before, Peg is an active member of the "Red Hat" society - so mixing reds and purples sort of goes with the territory. Blair is still running around with bags of beach sand from the first gathering, and Barb came equipped with a 50 pound bag of rice hulls... does that make them the Bag Ladies? Their combined talents kept us all on our toes.  Eric is always being challenged by us by being one of the rare male species who is active in temari ... so while the rest of us played with our "balls", Eric played with his "beauteous orbs". (see ancient talktemari history for details on that one) Eric is also a master at using unusual threads - velvets, tweeds - and all to stunning results. Carolyn kept a low profile this time 'round, and was frequently heard muttering "What have I gotten myself into" or "no, I'm not one of THEM"...(webmaster's note: Carolyn and Peg were the two "freshmen" in the bunch with it being their first gathering) Susan C. has managed to bat a thousand by not being able to attend her own gathering. History has it that every time she has attempted to host one of our gatherings, something major comes up, and she is forced to cancel out. This time, I do admit, she went a bit too far in her attempts to avoid us by becoming rather seriously ill - OK, Auntie Susie, enough of that!  - Sue H, Kalamazoo, Michigan

From Eric - Yes, this discussion group seems to easily spawn grand friendships. Soon after Susan announced when and where the 2003 Temari-Southern Style gathering was going to be, Peg moved back to Kentucky from California.  I wrote to her and asked if she would be interested in riding down to
Atlanta with me.  She kindly agreed.  A couple of weeks before our trip I was going to be visiting friends outside of Louisville and asked her if she would like to meet me first before actually getting in a car with a perfect stranger - and for all she knew, a skilled ax murderer - and driving for 6 hours.  She said the thought had not crossed her mind believing that the refined art and craft of temari would not attract ax murders.  Even with that being the case we still decided that any time spent amongst temari enthusiasts is time well spent and so arrangements were made and we spent a lovely couple of hours in a local coffee house enjoying effortless conversation. Soon it was Friday the 7th and Peg got up early to drive the 2 hours to get to my house.  When she arrived at my house my father came out to meet Peg and determine that she had "honorable intensions" toward his son.  (What father would knowing allow his son to jump into a car with one of those flashy, big-city gals without better assessing the situation?)  She passed this interrogation with great humor and some
terrific, snappy answers.  Soon we were loading up my car.  The beauty of traveling by car is that there is no anguish over what to bring with you and what to leave behind.  You just bring it all.  And we did. (Webmaster's note -  believe me they did. All of them. From Barb's van to you name it - more stuff made its appearance at this gathering than any other I think - only one person needed to fly to this one so there were a lot of "available" vehicles with space.) Between the two of us we filled the trunk and the entire back seat with luggage and threads and books and temari to share and temari to work on and snacks and CD's to listen to.  What would we have done if we had passed a hitchhiker on the side of the road, winding a temari and holding a sign saying "Atlanta or Bust"?  I guess we would have had to strap them to the bumper.  - Eric, Berea Kentucky

From Barb - Once again I was incredibly inspired by everyone.  Thank you all so much for traveling to Atlanta to come and share temari.  These meetings are absolutely the best way to pick up all those little tricks that make temari easy.  Although, I must confess, I did more “untemari” than temari over the weekend!  I was stuck in the backstitch mode!  I was trying new things and it took me a while to get them figured out.  It was a time to challenge myself, and, as always, I learned from it.  Maybe next time, I can stump Sue H!  After seeing her excitedly figure out the C10 problem design that Nicole presented, maybe I won’t!   - Barb, Raleigh North Carolina

On to the photos. These are presented as they were forwarded to me - just enjoy.


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