TemariNY 2004 StitchIn

Poughkeepsie, NY USA April 23-25 2004
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       It is so hard to believe that this was the third - yes THIRD! Annual StitchIn here - and by all accounts we managed to pull off another one. This year made history on two counts - it was the largest with 14 in attendance, and it marked the first international gathering as well (probably also the one with the most number of US states represented). We had temari-ites from Tacoma, Washington (Kathy H); Wyomissing, Pennsylvania (Paula G.); Fairbanks, Alaska (Carol C.); Nashville, Tennessee (Nicole B.); Atlanta, Georgia (Sue C.); Kalamazoo, Michigan (Sue H.); Fairhope, Alabama (Blair H.); Upper Marlboro and Rockville, Maryland (Ryan W and Marion L.); Plainfield, Connecticut (Karen St.J.); Cornish, Maine (Harriet S.); Berea, Kentucky (Eric C.)Poughkeepsie, New York (Ginny T.) and Devon, England/UK (Sarah B.). Nine brave souls camped here at the house, and five more sane ones kept the local Marriot Courtyard on its toes.

       This was also a longer running one, if unofficially; Sue C arrived a week ahead of time not only to visit but also to be my arms and legs again (without which these events would not be), flying into Stewart International (gosh that sounds impressive, when in reality there is one gate and two baggage carousels) on Saturday April 17. We had some visit time over the weekend before hitting the deck running on Monday to get things stocked; then Sarah B. arrived on Tuesday the 20th, having flown into Newark Liberty (just a few more gates and carousels) on British Air. We'd been planning and hoping for this for a year (or more) - and I had a limo (ok, Lincoln Towncar) waiting for her upon arrival, so that she was delivered on my doorstep within two and half hours of touching down. As has happened so many times, meeting for the first time was like a longlost reunion and none of us could believe that we had not already known each other. Sarah settled in nicely and even managed to stay awake till about 8:30pm that first night, having been up the equivalent of about 40 hours at that point; despite thoughts of moving in with a bunch of axe murderers and determining that the proof was the pile of "previous stitchin attendees relics" in the living room (I have two dogs who get a new bone nightly but I assure you they are beef bones......) - she had a good night's sleep. Wednesday saw us getting more errands done, being sure that Sarah had the proper gifts to take back home (her four year old had ordered up a "large blue pretend horse", which most amazingly the local ToysRUs supplied us with nicely if a bit smaller than Isobel was hoping for) and seeing a little of the local area (although perhaps taking her to the cemetery as the first stop was a bit off kilter... but it is the place with the most local history and all of the gardens were coming into bloom..... that didn't help the axe murderer suspicion though) - then it was back home to supper (or "tea") - and another cozy evening of stitching and sharing. Thursday got us getting the final gift shopping and groceries done, then awaiting the beginning arrivals for the weekend (due to Stewart's wide reaching capacity some found it easier to come in a day early). Blair arrived for a late supper and then we had a good stroll around the neighborhood (which is a nightly routine for the dogs) including Brendan (my adopted little brother that lives two doors down and was thoroughly enjoying the ever-growing parade each night, sort of like the Pied Piper. The neighborhood got into how many Ginny was going to have in tow next time... and then the call came that Sue H and Carol C were on the ground and had claimed the rental car, and were on their way from Stewart (believe it or not, they ended up on the same connection from Chicago into SWF).
(That helped a lot  - either I have been incredibly naive or luck in previous years in that most everyone arrived within about a three or four hour window; this year these two were the only ones I had coming in within six hours of each other. It still worked! God bless Sue H. for the idea of renting the car, which meant an extra vehicle and person to help with the chauffeuring.) They pulled in about 11:30 - not having had supper so after a quick frozen pizza we tucked in for the night. That brought us to five.

       Sue C and I took off for Stewart again Friday morning, leaving Sarah and Sue H to mind the fort.... and claimed Kathy H from her flight up from Raleigh where she had been visiting family before coming in to the weekend, grabbed the last of the perishable groceries and got back home for a late lunch. We also got home to find out that Nicole was throwing tantrums in the Nashville airport since she got there (which is about a mile from home for her) to find out her flight to Cincinatti had been cancelled.... she was able to reticket in on a later flight and we scarmbled to try to get a message to Eric that Nicole would not be meeting him in Cincinatti on the same connection as had orginally worked out. Sue H and Sue C took off again to Stewart late afternoon to claim Eric on a 5:30 arrival while I worked on Friday supper and welcomed the driving-inners: Karen, Paula, Ryan, Marion and Harriet. The last Stewart shuttle rolled in and we tucked into hot steak sandwiches, salad and assorted munchies (of which we were not lacking).

       Much as we hated to not be able to wait for Nicole (and needless to say, Nicole was in charge of nametags... so the five freshman and a few others that were here on separate years had to wing it till they arrived. However, we're not too sure how much help they were - according to Nicole, Blair didn't exist and Se C had somehow reloacted to Poughkeepsie from Atlanta without Sue knowing it), we got rolling after supper with the distribution of goodies and Show and Tell. As you know if you have been following the StitchIns the last years, I try to come up with a keepsake for everyone, and this year we had custom embroidered totes - there was a method to my madness in that with this many people, every bag had a nice big name tag on it - first order on the agenda was write your name on your tag and get instructed to keep your stuff in your bag (!). The bags however did not come empty. We were extremely fortunate with donated goodies from both corporate and private sources. My local tourism agency donated thee different local sourcebooks that included good readable history of the area (my thanks to Mary Wright); Vicki Smith of YLI Threads Corporation donated full-spool samples of Pearl Crown Rayon, Candlelight and Bunka; Tracy Chapman of Sew Thankful contributed full size balls of Valdani and Finca Pearl Cottons; our own Beth Stoll from the TalkTemari list had made temari fabric coasters for everyone and Carolyn Volk also from TalkTemari and a StitchIn alum from 2003 who could not make it this year (or so we thought) had hand painted small wooden balls in traditional temari patterns as magnets for everyone.. In addition to the giftbags these folks also provided door prizes along with yet others; in told we had about six hundred dollars worth of donated goodies (in gift bags and door prizes) to go around and I am deeply grateful to everyone who made it possible.

       We then rolled into the traditional Show and Tell - whereby just about everyone takes turns showing off what they have completed during the year (or longer if they were freshman to the event) - and this is also when many of the group give out to the others their little "o-miyage" - small token gifts of sharing and friendship. While certainly not obligatory, this has also become kind of a favorite tradition ( and it may be in many forms including sharing special talents). We had quite the gamut from origami bookmarks, tiny glass eggs, handmade display balls with photos of our temari, book holder-open/propperuppers, rice hulls, silk threads, rayon threads....   all generating oohs and ahhs - and, we were also treated to traditional Japanese munchies and sweets. Nicole finally managed to guide her limo driver in about 10:30, and we caught her up (I'd been playing for two to be sure her goodie bag was getting filled)....  and we finally all found our ways to beds (including Nicole's Teddy Bear, Sweetie, named for her hubby that arrived with her and yes, she did indeed sleep with him) be they here at the house or at the Marriott by about midnight, since we agreed to an 8:30 get-going time in the morning. I have to admit - all things considered, it was a quiet crew considering some years!!!

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