Talk Temari NY StitchIn, 2011- 10th Annual/Anniversary-Reunion Edition

Poughkeepsie NY April 15-17, 2011

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        What began as a small group (9 people) of early TalkTemari members gathering in my living room 10 years ago, came full circle in April 2011. Over the years the NY StitchIn has gone through "growing pains" - literally - with now always more people wanting to come than we have available seating. Even though we tried to keep accommodating the increasing numbers through the years it finally hit "critical mass" in 2007 and I (sadly) had to accept that future years we'd have to limit the number of people attending due to available (safe and comfortable) seating. Ever since we've used a lottery to determine attendees from the sign-up list,  in addition to the core Committee that helps me make them happen. I did, however, promise that if we made it to the 10th Stitchin in 2011, I would do what was necessary to allow it to be "open call" so that whoever wanted to come from TalkTemari could and we'd make it work. We did, and I did.

        Plans started some 18 months prior to the 2011 event, given all that needed to be done. Last June (2010) saw active logistics planning really firing up.  A meeting room with support facilities needed to be found; insurance needed to be bonded; furniture rented; catering planned and secured; hotel accommodations arranged, and.... a program and related amenities planned.  Hours (days, weeks, months) of thinking, planning, phoning, online digging and real paper-pushing brought all of those needs to life, and they really did merge into the 10th Annual TalkTemari NY Stitchin, April 15-17, 2011 - Reunion Edition.

        Some 30 Temari makers from 5 countries (US, Canada, Sweden, Cyprus, and The Netherlands) including 13 states of the US (NY, CT, GA, VA, NC ,TN, PA, OH, IN, IL, CA, LA, AL) began converging on the Residence Inn Marriott in Poughkeepsie by plane, train and automobile on April 14 and 15. In addition to former StitchIn-ers returning, some for the first time in several years, we had a great turnout of "Firsties", attending (for most of them) their first temari gathering and getting to meet temari makers for real (as opposed to only an on-line acquaintance and interaction). Most of the Committee people arrived early by a few days to a week and/or stayed on later (thank goodness...) in order to make it all tick. A staff meeting on Thursday evening (our thanks again to the Hobnobbin' Pub for accommodating us) got things officially rolling with the committee people getting their job assignments, program review,  a logistics and safety review, and any questions taken care of (due to the scope and size of this year's gathering, we were doing many things in different ways compared to previous StitchIns). Friday morning found us up and at'em early to do load-in and setup (1 truck & 3 cars of supplies and equipment, not counting the rented tables & chairs being delivered to the site) at the Hudson Valley Healing Arts Center in Hyde Park, NY, where we would be most comfortable using the meeting/classroom and support facilities. Thanks to many hands, the job went smoothly, and Step 1 was set. 

        The official kickoff for the StitchIn participants began Friday evening, with a drop-in style sign-in/meet & greet here at the house for everyone. Everyone received their event bags - program folder and info, name tag, commemorative insulated beverage tumbler (which is what everyone used for beverage service the next day), and a goodie pack of fibers from Rainbow Gallery (RG has been a sponsor-in-kind of the StitchIn for many years and we and thank you!). We mingled over punch and cookies while Color Kit swaps and Stitcher Showcase temari were collected and folks reunited (some after many years!) and got to know each other. Intrepid members of the Committee were busy upstairs in my office/studio photographing and prepping the temari for the next day's display. With so many people coming this year the standard Show & Tell sharing of everyone's work needed to be revamped in the interest of both time, and being sure that we were protecting everyone's work from damage or other untoward events (accidents happen). To accomplish this, everyone was invited to bring up to 5 temari, no larger than 5 inches in diameter. Identification tags to be attached to each temari were provided to everyone prior to arriving. The balls were collected, a formal photo of each person's collection taken (later to be shared with everyone), and then placed in protective clear bags before being mounted to a display board with each stitcher's name and home location. These display boards were put into place at the meeting venue on Saturday morning so that everyone could wander through them and admire throughout the day and evening.  With the "formal" photos having already been taken, it was great to just be able to browse and admire without scrambling to get "the shot" of "that ball".

        Saturday morning was an early call for everyone - even earlier for the staff. We were at work at HVHAC by 7am putting final touches on everything, setting up kitchen needs and refreshment/meal services, and general final prep. The doors opened at 8:30am with everyone to seated by 8:45 for opening announcements (yep, we were). Following a welcome, program reminders, and a safety review (this many people meeting in a public venue carries a lot more requirements and responsibilities), Learning Groups began at 9am. This StitchIn, because of its significance, was learning-intensive. While each year there usually has been a group project and a cultural presentation but mostly social stitching, I felt that given the occasion, the number of people coming, the mix of experience, and a lot of distance being traveled, it was important to be sure that people went home having advanced their temari skills, in addition to having fun (hopefully).  So, this was year was a full day of 4 Learning Groups. The topics had been determined by soliciting input from those planning to come with the hope of meeting the needs and desires of as many people as possible.  We were able to accommodate pretty near every request in one way or another. Four separate sessions offered:  2 were full-group for everyone, and 2 were Electives. Each person could choose 2 Elective offerings that had been determined by the most requested topics. Everyone got at least 1, if not both, of their requested electives, and a chance to be sure other questions were answered (and it took Ginny more than a few nights playing the shell game shuffling names and slots and schedules to get 30 people in the right place at the right time.... )

        The first Learning Group was for everyone ("required" versus "elective") - a presentation on basic color theory and using a color wheel to choose colors and enhance the use of them in Temari making. We were fortunate to have a guest join us for the day, Maggie C., who  is a retired fine arts teacher (with some 30 years experience). Maggie soon showed us why she was a most-beloved teacher in our local schools. Everyone learned and enjoyed the hows and whys of whether color choices work, or don't (it was very interesting to listen to the "ohhs" and "ahhs" and "wows" tittering through the audience). Following a stretch-and-snack break, it was back to class with Elective 1; either an open Study Hall was moderated by Nicole B. and Susan C., where participants could sit-and-stitch, & have personal temari questions answered, or a lesson in setting up Multiple Face Markings by Anne W. (which happened to be the most popular elective of the day).

        A half hour free-time break before lunch, and then it was time for our now-traditional multiple-foot long sub sandwich, salads, chips, fruit, and cookies. A slide show of the Showcase Temari ran during the break (or was supposed to... I was deeply touched with a surprise slide show of messages from many TalkTemari members that had been compiled for me, and my deep thanks to Nicole and everyone involved for  pulling that off).  The StitchIn program resumed with the second "required" Learning Group. We usually always have some Japanese culture learning at each StitchIn, since it all goes to enhancing the understanding of the Japanese aesthetic which helps temari design. This year we were privileged to have a presentation on the basics of Ikebana design, again by Maggie. Maggie is a certificate-holding (12th level, and grade 1 teacher) member and past-president of NY Tachibana, and treated us to a wonderful demonstration of Ikebana. As we watched and learned, the overall concepts also gave hints and guidance for temari design. She created several beautiful arrangements while describing the principles of the design process. Everyone was drawn in and fascinated watching her bring these arrangements to life (in 10 stitchins I've never had it so quiet as everyone watched in amazement). We were very fortunate to have had her share her talents with us throughout the day (Maggie is of Japanese decent, and is one of my private Temari students. From the moment I asked her to cover these topics at the Stitchin, she was eager and happy to help), and we offer her our deep appreciation.

        Following another stretch-and-snack break the last Learning Group convened, the second elective. The offerings this session were Free Embroidery Design with Anne W., learning to stitch Hito Hude Gake design with Sue H., or Design Development/DeStitching with me. With everyone's brains swimming following such an intensive day, there was ah hour of  free time prior to dinner to relax and unwind, visit with old and new friends, and share thoughts and ideas.  Dinner was again catered by Giacommo's, a perennial favorite now as well. Baked Ziti, Chicken Alfredo, garden and Ceasar salads, and fresh bread....  since it turned out to be a rather chilly and damp day, everyone welcomed the good comfort food.

        The evening was reserved for fun and games. First to be done was the Class Photo to be sure that we had everyone included (one of the hubbies that joined us for dinner was commandeered to be the photographer). This year, again because of different logistics, the traditional Temari Swap was merged with the traditional Yankee Swap which turned out to be a grand idea.... since the swapping occurs before anyone opens their package, it made for some spirited "stealing" over inventive and creative wrappings. Everyone then individually opened the package they ended up with (in some cases not what they started out choosing!) so that the appropriate admiring could be had and the maker take a bow. The Annual TemariKai Trivia Quiz was met with the usual moans, groans, disrespect and slap-stick non-attention; ditto the Temari Stitch Match, despite my bribing with Wink Light prizes for the winners (this has become a "most-beloved" tongue-in-cheek part of StitchIns, with many people vying to do the worst on both). During the evening I was side-tracked with a few wonderful surprises (totally against the rules, but for which I thank everyone again). Drawings for door prizes and table centers (each table had a bowl of bamboo encircled by a black ribbon, as we remembered the lives lost in the Japan Earthquake) were had. All too soon it was time to enjoy cake (again this year by popular request from the Pastry Garden) and coffee, and begin reuniting the Showcase Temari with their makers as everyone took leave after a very full and busy day (close to 12 hours worth).

        We reconvened informally for breakfast on Sunday morning at the Residence Inn. Some folks were ready to roll out early with long drives ahead of them; those with earlier flights were likewise packed and ready. A few others had later Sunday flights or Monday departures. The Committee still had work to do - thankfully we only had to turn off the lights and turn the key the night before, but now it was pack-up and clean-up time. Many hands from the Committee and a few more volunteers that were waiting for later departures made for quick work as we left things spic and span, very thankful for the use of the facility. With that, those that worked so hard through planning and actual doing were finally able to sit down and put their feet up. Over the next few days I was given a lot of help in unpacking, putting away and getting the house back to almost-normal before the last several gals had to head for home. We thankfully had safe travels both to and fro for everyone, and I still sit here reliving it all thinking that it all came off not only as we planned, but as we hoped and dreamed. The NY StitchIn is now not only the longest running gathering, but this was to date, the largest get-together of people from the group (TalkTemari) ever held.

        Support for the 2011 Stitchin was wonderful and wide-spread. I am always amazed at the number of folks that want to come, and are willing to travel - and in many cases, very long distances - to a little hole in the wall town in NY that no one can pronounce. That is never lost on me, and I am deeply honored and humbled that StitchIns mean so much to so many. Thank you for your trust and faith. To those that pitch in to make it happen year after year - your help is without measure. Without it, we would not have been able to undertake this, plain and simple - this year or any year in the past. Be it financial support, gifts-in-kind, loan of equipment, planning and prep help, errand running, and/or good old fashioned rolling-up-the-sleeves-and-doing, much came together to make it happen. Deep thanks and appreciation goes to:

*) Dr. and Mrs. Richard I. Horowitz, Hudson Valley Healing Arts Center, and staff

*) Rainbow Gallery Fibers

*) Mrs. David (Maggie) Caccamo, B.S, M.S.; 1st level Teacher (12 certificates), Ikenobo School, NY Tachibana

*) Mr. and Mrs. Raymond Longhi

*) Mr. Thomas Larssen

*) Mrs. Alan (Kaye) Schrock

*) Skyllkill Chapter, Embroiderers' Guild of America

*) NY Tachibana Chapter, Ikenobo School of Ikebana

*) Those participating in the weekend that loaned Ott Lights, white boards, extension cords, coffee urns, coolers, and accessory tables (and probably more that I'm not remembering)

*) The StitchIn Committee and 2011 Event Staff from TalkTemari (in no particular order):  Anne Wimer, Linda Hogan, Susan Cameron, Sue Hayashi, Karin Karlsson, Nicole Buchanan, Linda Watts, Blair Heald, Kate Madeloso, Diane Boxley - and to all of whom I send my love. You helped make a dream come true.


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